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How to Say “Do You Want to Go Out with Me?” in Turkish

The usual way to say “Do you want to go out with me?” in Turkish is Benimle çıkar mısın? It is informal: for friends, family and people your own age. Below are 3 alternatives (formal), how to reply, an example dialogue and the grammar behind it.

In Turkish

Benimle çıkar mısın?

Literally
“with me would-you-go-out?”
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Informalfor friends, family and people your own age

How Benimle çıkar mısın? is built

  1. ben-im-lewith me
  2. çık-go out; date
  3. -araorist
  4. mısınquestion + you
Grammar guideThe Turkish Instrumental: ile and the Suffix -(y)la / -(y)le (With, By, And) →Grammar guideThe Turkish Aorist Tense (-r / -er / -ir): Habits, Promises & Polite Requests →Grammar guideTurkish Imperative & Optative Moods: Commands, Invitations (Gidelim, Yapalım) →Conjugate the verbçıkmak (to go out, to exit) →

Other ways to say “Do you want to go out with me?”

  • Bir kahve içelim mi?Informal

    “shall we have a coffee?”

    The usual low-key first invitation.

  • Bu akşam boş musun?Informal

    “are you free tonight?”

    Checking availability.

  • Sizi yemeğe davet edebilir miyim?Formal

    “may I invite you to dinner?”

    Formal and courteous.

How to reply

  • Olur, çok sevinirim.

    Sure, I’d love to.

  • Kusura bakma, sevgilim var.

    Sorry, I’m seeing someone.

Example dialogue

  1. A

    Cumartesi bir kahve içelim mi?

    Shall we have a coffee on Saturday?

  2. B

    Olur, çok sevinirim!

    Sure, I’d love to!

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“Do you want to go out with me?” in Turkish: FAQ

How do you say “Do you want to go out with me” in Turkish?

The most common way is Benimle çıkar mısın? (literally “with me would-you-go-out?”), which is informal: for friends, family and people your own age. You will also hear Bir kahve içelim mi (“shall we have a coffee?”): the usual low-key first invitation.

How do you reply to Benimle çıkar mısın?

Typical replies are Olur, çok sevinirim. (“Sure, I’d love to.”) and Kusura bakma, sevgilim var. (“Sorry, I’m seeing someone.”).

What does each part of Benimle çıkar mısın mean?

ben-im-le = with me; çık- = go out; date; -ar = aorist; mısın = question + you. Biriyle çıkmak means “to go out with, to date someone”.

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